Wanted: Professional Women with Natural Hair
Sunday, November 1, 2009
As I mentioned in my "Good Hair" post, I was not happy with the way women - natural, permed, weaved or otherwise - were portrayed. But there was one segment in particular that bothered me. Recall the scene where the high school girls discussed their thoughts on professionalism. All of the relaxed girls told their natural friend that while her afro was 'cute' she'd never get a job in Corporate America because it wasn't professional enough. As a 40-year-old woman who has worked in Corporate America all of my professional life - I know this is a legitimate concern. Especially in more conservative industries. It was only just a couple of years ago that a Glamour magazine staffer addressed a group of female lawyers on corporate style and told them natural hair was definitely a "glamour don't." That staffer no longer works at Glamour. But she's not alone - both whites and blacks agree. I struggled with it as I debated the pros and cons of going natural. So I wasn't surprised by the girls' position in the movie. But what shook me to my core was how the natural girl just sat there and said nothing to rebut the attack. She reluctantly nodded her head in agreement and owned the 'unprofessional' label . I felt SO bad for her. I wanted to rescue her and tell her to say, "Not professional? Well how do you explain Ursula Burns, the first black female CEO at Xerox, or Constance White, Style Director at EBay?" I wanted to rattle off at least five more. But I couldn't. Not without doing some research. So that's what I'm going to do! With that, my feature segment on professional women with natural hair is born - featuring YOU! Give me a minute to think of some good questions. If you have suggestions, please post them in the comments. Once I get the format worked out, I'll solicit submissions from readers. I'm counting on my friends to participate as well (Wendy, Kim, Peggy, Michelle, Ingrid, Stacey ... yes I am talking about you). So professional ladies, start taking some pictures in your work clothes and office if you can. Let's show everyone that natural hair can be professional and women who choose to do so ARE successful in their fields.




9 comments:
love the new design
Thanks His Daughter! Glad you like the new logo. I'm going to add a poll to get feedback.
You go girl! I will certainly contribute to your new blog feature. I'm sitting here rocking my fro, in my very own office with my law degree on the wall. LOL
Count me in!! I have two Masters' degrees and I work for the Texas Office of the Governor. Hmmph.
Girl, I just blogged about this last night. I feel the exact same way. I have some questions but I will have to get back to ya. Love the new design.
i think it all depends. we must admit that some women take advantage of being natural and call looking like crap a style. i'm natural too, and when i went to my office job i always made sure my hair looks top notch.
just because my hair is curly and wild doesn't mean i allow it to look flagga flagga.
.kisses.... great post.
Great idea! I'll be back to read. I just saw the movie after much pressure from friends. Sigh, I knew I wouldn't like it. Really, it gave me a headache and had I been at home, I would have changed the channel.
I, too, felt bad for the young sister. I pray she has people close to her who know better and think otherwise.
You can add Susan Akkad, a Senior Vice-President at the Estee Lauder Companies.
My decision to go natural was to save my hair (and my mind). I decided life is too short to let others define how I should look. I decided I would be ME regardless of the cost---and if I couldn't get a job, man, friend, etc because of my hair---it wasn't the right thing for me. When you hear others' comments - examine the root ---its always THEIR issues. As black women, we have to stop buying in to the psychological number others (esp our own internalized stuff) have done on us about our hair. I saw Good Hair--and it was representative of how well "that number" has worked. No representation or statement to show natural beauty at all!! I was mad for the girl too, and wanted her to know she was beautiful just as she is. As with some of us, once she reaches 35-40 years old, she'll look back at old pictures and see just how beautiful she really was, and how much precious time was WASTED letting others define how she should look. The reasons for going natural may differ among us...but for me--it unlocked my mind, and I became free enough to fall in love with myself and my hair. At the end of your life, will how wore your hair really be that important????? Did it make you happy? Increase your 401K? Strengthen your marriage or family? Will it be a topic at your funeral? I could go on, but you get the picture....
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